Author · Pastor · Disability advocate

Caroline Cupp

Stories of disability, faith, and the right to belong.

I'm a Presbyterian pastor, a disabled parent, and the author of books for children and adults about what it means to be fully human, and fully included, in a world not always built for us.

Caroline Cupp smiling, seated with her forearm crutches resting across her lap

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Hi, I'm Caroline

Every story I tell comes back to belonging.

I grew up with cerebral palsy, and I've always been drawn to the places where one person's story meets the bigger stories of culture, health, and faith. That's where I do my work: in picture books that let disabled kids see themselves, in honest writing about love and dating, and in a congregation outside Philadelphia where we try to make room for everyone at the table.

I'm passionate about bringing untold stories to light, mining ancient narratives for contemporary wisdom, and fighting loneliness in all its forms.

I live with my husband and son outside Philadelphia.

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Play that lets everyone join in.

The picture books begin with a simple idea: every child belongs in the game. This short video from Crayola Learning explores what inclusive play means.

What Is Inclusive Play? Art of Learning™, Crayola Learning

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Books by Caroline

For kids learning that every body belongs, and for grown-ups living that truth every day.

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Cover of This Is How We Talk
Picture book · 2025

This Is How We Talk

A celebration of disability and connection, with Jessica Slice.

“A true celebration of all people living with disabilities and an invaluable learning experience for children and their grown ups.”

— School Library Journal starred review
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Nonfiction · Hachette

Dateable

Swiping right, hooking up, and settling down while chronically ill and disabled, with Jessica Slice.

“The definitive guide on dating for people with chronic illnesses or disabilities.”

— Ms. Magazine
Coming 2028

The Right to Belong

Judy Heumann and the work for disability justice, written with Judy Heumann and Jessica Slice. Dial / Penguin Random House.

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Speaking

Bring Caroline to your school, congregation, or conference.

Drawing on her work as a chaplain, pastor, bioethicist, and author, Caroline speaks with warmth and candor about disability, faith, and building communities where everyone truly belongs, in person or virtually.

  • Elementary schools
  • Libraries
  • Congregations
  • Seminaries
  • Healthcare & chaplaincy
  • Conferences
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  • Every Body BelongsAn interactive author visit for young readers built around This Is How We Play and This Is How We Talk.
  • Misfit LeadershipWhy the church needs disabled leaders, and what changes when it listens to them.
  • DateableLove, intimacy, and relationships for disabled and chronically ill people, and the people who love them.
  • The Right to BelongJudy Heumann's legacy and what disability justice asks of all of us now.

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Upcoming Events

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  • A talk on living a good life

    For West Chester University students

    Date to be confirmed

  • Preaching at a Presbyterian conference

    North Carolina

    Date to be confirmed

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Stories from the pulpit and the page, conversations with disabled writers and thinkers, classroom resources, and first looks at The Right to Belong.

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